会故人
微风浪涌戏故人，
炎夏六月相逢欣，
禅功不深难辩我，
禅功深了我难辩。
斋心
斋心
朝代:唐 作者:王昌龄
女萝覆石壁，溪水幽朦胧。
紫葛蔓黄花，娟娟寒露中。
朝饮花上露，夜卧松下风。
云英化为水，光采与我同。
日月荡精魄，寥寥天宇空。
The Power of Groupthink: The New Denial
The Power of Groupthink: The New Denial
by Chris McKenzie
Denial in all its forms is alive and well in each of us. We use it to justify what we do and do not want to do. We use it to protect ourselves. We even use it to push back the inevitable as long as possible so we can get ready to deal with it. Adults are often in denial, and we can see it at work best in our children who stamp their feet, pout and hide to avoid confronting reality. In its darkest form denial has justified unspeakable cruelty to our fellow human beings. In its best form it allows us to compassionately handle depression, disappointment and loss.